Tuesday, February 22, 2011
This is it. Must be the curse.
Four consecutive days must mean something.
I refuse to be okay this time.
Not just because you can charm your way through
Not just because you have a cute butt
Not just because you have sexy arms
Not just because I can't stay angry at you
I am angry. I want to stay angry. I WILL stay angry.
It's time you start DOING something.
Someone please tell him that he actually is the grrom?
Labels: buay song
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
V day is hazpenning when you play mahjong with 3 girls and ur bf is on the couch watching tv. haha. but then i'm sure if i were not playing mahjong, he will still be on the couch watching tv.
As I grow older, my expectations in a relationship changes. Yes flowers, chocs, presents are good to have, but then I will not be jumping if I do not get them. Instead, a nice walk in the supermarket, a big bear hug from behind when i am washing the grocery and even making coffee for him feel sweet. At the end of the day, it is really about the general feeling in a relationship that counts.
Of course, if I were to evaluate him, there are things he can definitely do better, like giving me the card that he promised me six months ago, do not watch the tv when kissing me, bring me on movie dates more often, have pillow talks successfully without dozing off...but do these really matter if u know he truly makes an effort on his part to meet you and make u happy?
After a rocky start in the first few months, I learnt that the most important thing is to be direct with what you want. If I want a dinner date, I tell him. if I want a ring and a proposal, I demand one from him. If I want a kiss, I grab him. In a relationship, there is no such thing as Paisey. and i guess this is what keeps us working so well.
Lin Yan's (ming yan) famous phrase of the day:
His efforts to do what you want him to shows that he bothered.
** i am super impressed with myself, both the phrase and the cabonara I made today.
Wednesday, February 09, 2011
RSVPed Diary #7 : The Official Proposal (True Story)
My surprise finally came, not suprising but definitely a lifetime of remembrance.
Somehow, getting proposed to on the 29th of the lunar new year makes one in a very festive mood.
He was planning to bring me out on a nice dinner on Tues and I agreed, trying very hard not to blurt out the word "ring". But heaven was playing a trick on me, ruining my already not very surprising surprise. My whole family was supposed to come over for a pre-reunion dinner. So no choice, our romantic dinner was spent with my family instead. Immediately after the dinner, we headed out, planning for a nice drink. The entire family was bombarding us why we have to go out, so no choice, must say "very important night". (they are sibeh extra)
Anyway, the point is, the HTB proposed. In a way so NOT romantic it is funny. He was having a smoke with my cousin under the void deck, and asked me to start the car first. The moment my cousin left, he asked me to stay in the driver seat, while he went to take some thing...ooohhh...surprise surprise! He came over with a flower (I was very pleasantly surprised cos I never expected him to get me a flower), and knelt down (rather squat down), and proposed me with the ring, all the while with a CIGARETTE in his mouth!!! Did I even mention all these happened at the void deck of Block 752 Jurong West St 74 Postal Code 640752?
Mai Hiam la....so we went to Jewel Box for a nice drink with a nice view. I can picture doing this with him for the next 30 years, I really do.
Anyway, my wedding invites are done, my invite list is confirmed. The Big day is coming in about a month, cannot contain the jittery.
P.s. To my friend, I know you wish to get married too. Please pick a [right] man.
He is not wrong, he is just not the right one for you.
Thursday, February 03, 2011
RSVP-ed Diary #6
The "Expected Surprise" finally came. No surprises, but definitely touched and happy. Had to juggle pre-reunion dinner and proposal, not a very romantic lead up, but hey, I got the flowers, got the ring, got the blessings from my parents and got D man!
Thank you for bowing :)
I is loves you deep deep
